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Deal With It, Don’t Color It.

“Free your mind… and the rest will follow.” En Vogue certainly nailed that lyric. Marcus Aurelius wrote “External things are not the problem. It’s your assessment of them.” Lenny Bruce penned “There is no ‘what should be’. There is only ‘what is’”.  Kristin Neff’s Self Compassion advises “Pain is unavoidable, suffering is optional.”  Perception is…

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Over Respond to Your Overreactions

“You can’t evolve unless you change.” – Thomas J. Leonard Social conditioning has stunted your growth. All of us have learned in some way shape or form to stifle our responses in order to be “in control”, “civil”, or “courteous”. By doing so, you have trained your mind and body to disconnect from each other….

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Dream In The Present

The “D” in the MVG FWD Reframe-work stands for dream. It’s the only forward-looking element, but let me use the wise words of Thomas J Leonard as a caution. “Hold your dreams lightly and [don’t] squeeze the soul out of them.” Dreams are important, they provide directionally accurate orientation, however, they are never fully realized. …

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Interested Is Interesting

You’ve heard that before. Now here is a different take on it. Are you asking questions about yourself that feel like you are truly interested in the answer?  In the Humble Inquiry, Edgar Schein defines humble inquiry as “the fine art of drawing someone out, of asking questions to which you do not already know…

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Be Curious and Go Deep.

“Dig deep; the water – goodness – is down there. And as long as you keep digging, it will keep bubbling up.”  – Marcus Aurelius It’s helpful to use mantras as easy to remember encouragements. One that is especially useful is the combination of two: Be Curious and Go Deep. The mantra is a reminder…